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Special Announcements for HSP Spirituality Month

Dear Reader, A season for going inward... This is the time of year when many of the world's religions call upon the faithful to turn toward their spiritual practices. Elaine Aron has always taught us that spirituality is key to thriving as HSPs. This month we also celebrate the release of Elaine's new book, Spirituality Through a Highly Sensitive Lens, which we will be studying at Are You Highly Sensitive along with HSPs across the world. Get the book and join us. An invitation to deepen......

Instagram Live Today

Dear Reader, Join me on Instagram for some more live parent Q&A coaching this morning! 8:30am Pacific | 11:30am Eastern. How do you find the live conversations? Follow us on Instagram: @areyouhighlysensitive & @adriennebishopcoachingBring your questions or come on for coaching. Here is a short clip from Sunday's session which was about half an hour long in total. This is all to promote the new podcast dropping on Wednesday morning at Real Parenting for Sensitive Moms. And I hope you know by...

Real Parenting for Sensitive Moms IG live with Alane Freund, LMFT

Dear Reader, I'm happy to invite you to join me live on Instagram coaching parents with The Sensitive Moms Podcast. We'll be chatting on IG twice in the next few days: Sunday, April 12, 10am Pacific |1pm Eastern Tuesday, April 14, 8:30am Pacific | 11:30am Eastern How do you find the live conversations? Follow me on Instagram: @areyouhighlysensitive. Bring your questions!First question for tomorrow (Sunday): Is my 13-year-old’s behavior—defensiveness, sensitivity to criticism, procrastination,...

Billboard saying Don't Be Fooled: Wisdom is not a secret. Info about Wise Women and Wonder on April 4th

Dear Reader,You may have heard that Spirituality through a Highly Sensitive Lens by Elaine Aron has arrived. I've just started reading and already have a few offerings to bring to our circle on Saturday. Throughout the book, Elaine speaks about the concept of a deep equanimity that enriches and calms the highly sensitive life, especially as we grow in our wisdom mission. Whether you are at the beginning of your journey or exploring the depths of your wisdom, embracing your sisters in...

Group of people standing in a green pasture with a herd of horses. There's a blue sky with gentle clouds in the background.

Dear Reader, Please join us for Speaking Horse this Saturday, March 28th, 9:30-11:00am, at our Heart & Mind Equine Vacation Pasture on San Antonio Road between Novato and Petaluma. MARCH Theme: Spring RenewalJoin the herd one week after the Spring Equinox as we honor the renewal and rebirth of Spring. Together, we will explore this season of balance and transition through the wisdom of the horses. As we observe the physical balance within a horse’s anatomy, we will reflect on how balance...

Spring Forward. If you move your clocks forward, please remember it's a big transition for HSPs.

Dear Reader, I'll make it easy for us all. Start thinking in the new time now. That means: Get up EARLIER Eat supper EARLIER Turn off your screens EARLIER Go to bed EARLIER I watched the time yesterday, thinking about the added hour every time I looked. It's a big change. If you are parenting, I offer a choice of these two suggestions: Tell the kids what's going on and get them up earlier and to bed earlier, or Change the clocks they see and omit an hour from their afternoon/evening routine...

Making Relationships Work Even When a Cave Sounds Good, a masterclass with Alane Freund and Dr. Art Aron in honor of HSPs Love Month, February.

Dear Reader, Love... are you feeling it? Or maybe you worry about love in your life.Is it easy?Do you long for it?Are you surrounded by love?Do you love or hate Valentine's Day? HSP, you have a big open heart. Love comes easily to you... when you are taking care of you. And sometimes there are challenges...Maybe there are lonely days.Maybe there are conflicts in your relationships.Maybe the love is so strong it feels overwhelming.And sometimes you might forget to first love yourself.All of...

Alane Freund sitting in a hammock in the forest.

Dear Reader, The intimate, deep, loving circle I call Wise Women & Wonder does hold wonder for me. I made up this idea a number of years ago and many of you have joined the journey. We are at it again this weekend, the FIRST SATURDAY (February 7th) at 10AM Pacific and 1 PM Eastern. You can learn more and register here. Or email me to save your place and send over a VenMo (to avoid the Eventbrite fees). You must reserve your spot one of these ways because sometimes we are sold out. Some of the...

A round swinging couch in the rainforest at the Imiloa HSP retreat in Costa Rica

Dear Reader, Hey, will you give me a push? I literally asked another guest to give me (and my friend) a push when we were lounging on the swing. And guess what? If you are on the swing, I’ll happily come and give you a gentle push. I loved swings as a child and it turns out they helped me regulate my nervous system. They also answered the call of the high sensation seeker in me… Look how high, I think I could fly! This swing is the first place I sat down at Imiloa on my own retreat. I even...

The beautiful rainforest altar at the HSP Costa Rica retreat.

Dear Reader, Last week, in my live, three-day event, we explored living in three realms as highly sensitive people: Noise, Heart, and Vision. It was an enlightening journey full of community. If you missed it, here is a brief summary. Together, we talked about recognizing overwhelm as information rather than failure, and how learning to work with your nervous system can bring more steadiness and choice into daily life. We explored practical ways to return to the heart through breath, posture,...